Kingdom Pair
How Kingdom Pair works
Faith decides who you see, a chat opens only when you both say yes, and every match has room to grow at its own pace.
How it works
Conversations that go somewhere.
- 01
Say what you are looking for
Marriage, an intentional relationship or friendship first. Your church, how you pray, whether you want children. Then Kingdom Questions in your own words, like “Who is Jesus to you?”
- 02
Meet people in order of faith
Discover shows you 20 people a day for free, best match first, each with the score and the answers behind it.
- 03
Talk once you both say yes
A chat opens only when the like is mutual. Nobody can message you out of nowhere.
- 04
Grow together, at your own pace
Every match has a Together page: your relationship stage, prayers you share, and the eight-week Kingdom Journey.
How Discover decides
Photos count for nothing.
Most dating apps put the most photogenic people first. Kingdom Pair scores every match on what the two of you answered about faith, intention and family, and orders Discover by that score. Your photos are there to be seen, not to rank you.
You see the score and what it is made of before you send a word. It is an estimate of shared ground, never a promise about who you are meant to be with.
- 30%
- FaithDenomination, how much it matters to you, how often you worship
- 20%
- IntentionMarriage, an intentional relationship, or friendship first
- 15%
- FamilyChildren, when you hope to marry, how much family matters
- 15%
- PracticesPrayer, Bible study, fasting, Christian service
- 10%
- LifestyleThe interests you share
- 10%
- PersonalityIntrovert, extrovert or in between
- 0%
- PhotographsNot part of the score at all.
The Kingdom Journey
Eight weeks of the conversations that decide a marriage.
Once you match, you can take the Journey together: one topic a week, four questions each, so you learn whether you can build a life together and not only whether you get on.
- Week 1
Getting to know each other
“What does a normal week look like for you?”
- Week 2
Faith and spiritual life
“Where do you feel God is leading you this year?”
- Week 3
Family and upbringing
“What did you learn about marriage from your parents?”
- Week 4
Marriage expectations
“Traditional wedding, church wedding: what matters to you?”
- Week 5
Finances and career
“Joint account, separate, or both?”
- Week 6
Children and parenting
“How would you want to raise them in the faith?”
- Week 7
Conflict and communication
“How do you apologise, and how do you like to be apologised to?”
- Week 8
Future and purpose
“How could we serve God together?”
You move forward only when you both agree.
Every match starts at the first stage. Either of you can suggest the next one; nothing changes until the other accepts. The app never decides when a couple is ready.
- 1Getting to know you
- 2Intentional dating
- 3Courtship
- 4Relationship readiness
- 5Engagement and marriage
Also on the Together page: Pray Together, where one of you starts a short prayer and the other joins, and Bible Duel, a quiz for two.
Rooted in Nigeria
Settle the family questions before they become surprises.
Matches can share where they stand on the things families will ask about, long before an introduction.
Choose your state and local government area in Nigeria, or your town in any of 244 countries. If you would rather meet people where you live, switch on “Only people in my country”. And no filtering by tribe or ethnicity. Ever.
- Family involvement
- Closely involvedAt key momentsMostly our decision
- Traditional marriage
- Important to meOpen to itNot for me
- Church wedding
- A mustWould like oneNot essential
- Bride price and marriage list
- The full traditionKeep it modestSymbolic only
- Extended family
- Live close and support themSupport from a distanceSome independence
- Money in marriage
- Fully jointJoint plus personalMostly separate
We don’t just ask, “Who do you find attractive?”
We ask who you can build a Christ-centred life with.
