Christian dating, rooted in Nigeria
Who can you build a Christ-centred life with?
Kingdom Pair is for Christians who are dating with marriage in mind, in Nigeria and wherever you live. Who you see is ordered by faith and intention, and photographs never move anyone up the list.
Free on Android · Adults 18 and over
How Discover decides
Photos count for nothing.
Most dating apps put the most photogenic people first. Kingdom Pair scores every match on what the two of you answered about faith, intention and family, and orders Discover by that score. Your photos are there to be seen, not to rank you.
You see the score and what it is made of before you send a word. It is an estimate of shared ground, never a promise about who you are meant to be with.
- 30%
- FaithDenomination, how much it matters to you, how often you worship
- 20%
- IntentionMarriage, an intentional relationship, or friendship first
- 15%
- FamilyChildren, when you hope to marry, how much family matters
- 15%
- PracticesPrayer, Bible study, fasting, Christian service
- 10%
- LifestyleThe interests you share
- 10%
- PersonalityIntrovert, extrovert or in between
- 0%
- PhotographsNot part of the score at all.
How it works
Conversations that go somewhere.
- 01
Say what you are looking for
Marriage, an intentional relationship or friendship first. Your church, how you pray, whether you want children. Then Kingdom Questions in your own words, like “Who is Jesus to you?”
- 02
Meet people in order of faith
Discover shows you 20 people a day for free, best match first, each with the score and the answers behind it.
- 03
Talk once you both say yes
A chat opens only when the like is mutual. Nobody can message you out of nowhere.
- 04
Grow together, at your own pace
Every match has a Together page: your relationship stage, prayers you share, and the eight-week Kingdom Journey.
The Kingdom Journey
Eight weeks of the conversations that decide a marriage.
Once you match, you can take the Journey together: one topic a week, four questions each, so you learn whether you can build a life together and not only whether you get on.
- Week 1
Getting to know each other
“What does a normal week look like for you?”
- Week 2
Faith and spiritual life
“Where do you feel God is leading you this year?”
- Week 3
Family and upbringing
“What did you learn about marriage from your parents?”
- Week 4
Marriage expectations
“Traditional wedding, church wedding: what matters to you?”
- Week 5
Finances and career
“Joint account, separate, or both?”
- Week 6
Children and parenting
“How would you want to raise them in the faith?”
- Week 7
Conflict and communication
“How do you apologise, and how do you like to be apologised to?”
- Week 8
Future and purpose
“How could we serve God together?”
You move forward only when you both agree.
Every match starts at the first stage. Either of you can suggest the next one; nothing changes until the other accepts. The app never decides when a couple is ready.
- 1Getting to know you
- 2Intentional dating
- 3Courtship
- 4Relationship readiness
- 5Engagement and marriage
Also on the Together page: Pray Together, where one of you starts a short prayer and the other joins, and Bible Duel, a quiz for two.
Safety
Safety you can check, not slogans.
A person checks it’s really them
To get verified, you are given a pose at random and five minutes to send a selfie doing it. Someone on our team compares it with your photos, then the selfie is deleted.
Every report is read
Report or block anyone from their profile or your chat. A moderator reads every report, and every new photo is seen by a person.
Scam patterns are flagged
Messages are checked for the lines romance scammers use, such as sudden money requests. You see a warning, and a moderator sees the flag.
Nobody can find your house
Others see roughly how far away you are, never where. Your location is rounded on your phone and the distance is worked out on our servers.
What we don’t do. We never ask for your ID card or passport. We don’t promise round-the-clock protection, because nobody can honestly offer it. We do promise that a person reads what you report.
Rooted in Nigeria
Settle the family questions before they become surprises.
Matches can share where they stand on the things families will ask about, long before an introduction.
Choose your state and local government area in Nigeria, or your town in any of 244 countries. If you would rather meet people where you live, switch on “Only people in my country”. And no filtering by tribe or ethnicity. Ever.
- Family involvement
- Closely involvedAt key momentsMostly our decision
- Traditional marriage
- Important to meOpen to itNot for me
- Church wedding
- A mustWould like oneNot essential
- Bride price and marriage list
- The full traditionKeep it modestSymbolic only
- Extended family
- Live close and support themSupport from a distanceSome independence
- Money in marriage
- Fully jointJoint plus personalMostly separate
Free and Premium
Free to start. Premium when you want to know who said yes.
Free
Everything you need to meet someone.
- 20 profiles a day on Discover
- Likes, matches and messages
- The Together page, Pray Together and the Kingdom Journey
- Photo verification
Kingdom Premium
For members who would rather not leave it to twenty profiles a day.
- See everyone who likes you
- Every profile on Discover, and no like limit
- 10 Super Likes and 5 Intentional Interests a week
- Rewind a pass you didn’t mean
- A profile boost in your area
1 month
₦4,000
₦4,000 a month
3 months
₦10,500
₦3,500 a month
Best value
6 months
₦18,000
₦3,000 a month
Prices shown are for Nigeria. Elsewhere Google Play shows and charges the price in your own currency. Manage or cancel it in Play at any time.
Questions
Before you download.
Who is Kingdom Pair for?
Christians aged 18 and over who are dating with marriage in mind. It began in Nigeria, and it is for believers wherever they live: choose your country and town when you sign up.
Is it really free?
Yes. You can build a profile, see 20 people a day, match, message and use the Together page without paying. Premium is optional.
How does verification work?
In the app, ask to get verified. We show you a pose chosen at random and you have five minutes to send a selfie doing it. A person on our team compares it with your profile photos. The selfie is deleted as soon as they decide, and we never ask for ID documents.
Can other members see where I live?
No. They see an approximate distance, such as “12 km away”. Your exact location never leaves our servers.
Can I take a break without deleting my account?
Yes. Pause your profile in Settings and nobody new will see you until you turn it back on. Your matches and chats stay.
How do I delete my account?
In the app, go to Settings and choose Delete account. If you no longer have the app, here is how to ask us.
Is there an iPhone app?
Not yet. Kingdom Pair is on Android today.
We don’t just ask, “Who do you find attractive?”
We ask who you can build a Christ-centred life with.